played or does he have problems?

After seeing a guy for a few weeks I thought I had found a decent one. Then to have it disappear in the blink of an eye left me stunned, shocked and at least a little upset. It was too out of the blue to let it slide so I did investigations with a mutual friend I had with the guy in question. I was shocked with the message I got back to say the least but when I think about it in hindsight maybe he was a bit crazy and his issues effected how me and him worked.

 

Needless to say this information was an immediate relief to know it probably wasn’t me as we had been getting on like a house on fire or so i thought.

But why did he just suddenly flip from being all happy go lucky, organising things in the future, having plans for after I go away on holidays, even suggesting we go to France and bringing up the god awful children questions

But I’ve come to the conclusion I gotta put him to the side for the moment and deal with him after I go on an amazing holiday!

He’s back to his old tricks!

After about a week of pestering me to meet up and flirting with him, I eventually gave in and said yes to going to the cinema, to find out from him the night before he has no money as he has had to pay for holiday incidentals and is poor. He is taking his son on holiday for a week and the mother and a few friends are going as well! I think its great he’s being a dad to his son but  he’s back to his old ways he tries to get me to go somewhere and cancels due to an issue with his son and then promises he’ll make it up to me! its gone beyond a joke at this stage!

I thought we were being friends but that isn’t what he wants and I came to this decision due to some snapchats I received over the last two weeks, I’m sure many of you have heard about snapchat at this stage and it deleting photos after 10 sec, its fair to say i received a few less than innocent pictures from him!

Well he cancelled and said we should meet up when he’s back but I find myself very un enthusiastic about this and not even surprised or hurt about what happened because I think deep down all along i knew this would happen… He may still be interested in me and cant let me go but its time for me to let him go and move on!