I’ve begun to realise recently than men are more hormonal and prone to mood swings than a woman pmsing. After breaking it off with a stoner I thought to myself “WTF” was I doing with someone who is more emotionally stunted then a tree stump or a hedgehog I haven’t really decided yet.
Now I have no problem with anyone taking the occasional hit and I thought I could deal with it and that he would eventually stop. Boy was I special thinking that, it was so not the case, in fact he would just smoke more and more and when life got harder he would take more and more hits it bordered on an addiction… in fact I think it was an addiction but there was no telling him that.
If we ever had a disagreement he would stop talking to me until I saw his point of view or would argue consistently plague me until I gave in. Now that I have time to reflect on it all I can see, it was such a bum and girlish move to pull! Its worse then any of the stuff I played when I was 18 now that we are in our middle 20’s we should not be playing these childish and pathetic games. Not only that but if he ever had drama going on in his life, the stress was taken out on me, I was called childish, foolish and dramatic for asking for there to be a little more communication so I could support him through his difficult times or if I asked if he wanted space I was blasted for trying to end it.
Needless to say I have now begun to realise men are girls and girls are men about a lot more then they are given credit for. Maybe its time for men to actually become more masculine and give up with the drama queen antics for example deleting a girl after she tells him she has pushed him away.